Dear GranddadYou will always live on in our hearts
Lots of love
Sounds lovely .
I must admit , when I organize my father funeral , what I found most hard was to what to write on the tome stone , that was in 02
I feel its nice to read those little cards that are left on the grave with the flowers after a funeral , because it show how much he was loved by everyone .
last year , when my mother sister died , I did not read them who they where from , just left them they .
The hardest part I always find hard is when the box , go into the grave , thats when I cried . as I had to organize it all last year , that I did not cry , just keep having bad dreams .
Then when I mention this about not crying to my Untie brother in Law , he said I would do when the box went into the grave & he was right , so I lean on my son and cry my heart out , bless him he just let me cry it all out on this shoulder , hugging me
Where with my father I did not cry , It was all new to me someone so close to me passing way , that I was more worried about comforting my children crying . when the box went into the grave & mum walling my husband , my carlo , crying out scarring us all that we all went to confront my mother
So my advice is don't be scared of crying when your there , lean on your husband & cry if you want to .
